It’s already Thanksgiving time. That means, here in the U.S, it’s a time to reflect on everything you’re thankful for (so basically, everything) while eating turkey, a plant-based meat alternative, and/or Indian food for Thanksgiving dinner with family.
And with that, while you’re planning your Indian wedding, it’s also a good time to think about how you’ll properly say thank you to anyone and everyone involved in planning and attending your Indian wedding. It’s a production to put on a wedding, no matter how big or small your events will be.
Here are 5 ways to Properly Say Thank You During Your Indian Wedding:
1) Say Thanks to your Guests
This is one of the easiest things you can do, but it also requires some planning. If you want to thank everyone at your wedding, you’ll have to find time to do it. Try a receiving line before or during one of your events. Guests want to say hi and congrats, so let them. It’s also a good time to say thanks. Another option is going from table to table to say thanks in a more orderly way. This takes time, so be sure to keep it brief at each table (since everyone will want to strike up a conversation, naturally). And lastly, slip in your thank you during your speeches, but keep it brief.
2) Say Thanks to your Wedding Vendors
Yes, you’re a paying customer of your vendors, but it doesn’t cost you anything to say thanks, especially when you’re happy with their services. Without your vendors working together, your wedding won’t come together as you want it to. A simple thanks via email or phone (or better yet, in person) would suffice.
3) Say Thanks to your Family and Friends
Whether you decide to give gifts or handwritten thank you notes, saying thanks to family and friends who helped plan your wedding is a must. No further explanation needed.
4) Say Thanks to Each Other
Without each other, this wedding would not be happening. Sit down for a few minutes and reflect on why you’re thankful. Write a quick note (or a nice card) to your other half. A little appreciation goes a long way. Exchange notes at the start of your honeymoon, it’s a perfect transition from the excitement of your wedding to the relaxation of your honeymoon.
5) Say Thanks with Thank you cards
Yes, you said thank you to your guests at your wedding events. That’s not enough. Your guests are likely giving you some cash gifts as well (assuming you said “no boxed gifts please” on your invite). Sending thank you cards via the mail is a must. There are really no excuses. Get organized, make your list of gifts, and start writing your notes as soon as you get back from your honeymoon. It may take a few weeks to finish, but if you don’t start right away, you’ll never end up getting it done. Nobody wants a thank you note 6 months after a wedding…
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